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RULES

1. No means no. All play must be agreed upon with enthusiastic consent.

2. Age limit 21-45 (With some flexibility) 

3. All guests must be vetted before attending an event. 

4. Single cis men will not be permitted to attend in groups. 

5. Kumana Nights is inclusive of the LGBTIQA+ community. Offensive or discriminatory language or behaviours will not be tolerated. 

6. Illegal behaviour will not be tolerated.

7. Photos and video are strictly prohibited.

8. Dress to impress and express.

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* Kumana Nights invites you to come and play at your comfort level. There is no pressure to be involved. People of any experience are welcome to come and socialise, connect, flirt, watch, and explore at their own pace. 

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FAQ

It is normal to experience nervousness or uncertainty before attending a play party. We are always happy to answer any questions or address any concerns you may have to assist you in having the most comfortable and positive experience possible. 

  • What can I expect?
    Parties will always differ depending on the chemistry of the attendees, but some things are for certain; the drinks will be flowing, the music will be pulsing, and there will be plenty of sensual spaces to explore. Guests will be advised of the venue 24hrs before an event, and will need to arrive within an allotted time, before the doors close and the fun begins. Socialise and flirt in the communal space, or retreat into a private play area. (You may even be treated to a sexy burlesque or kink performance to get you in the mood.) You will be well looked after by our host and attentive bar staff, who's focus is to help you feel as comfortable and spoilt as possible. Creating a safe and pleasurable space for you is our priority! New-comer nerves are normal, but remember - everyone is in the same boat. You will be amongst open, likeminded others. How refreshing!
  • How does the vetting process work?
    It's extremely important to us that our guests take pride in their appearance, understand our ethos and attend our events with the right attitude. We acknowledge that "attractiveness" is a subjective concept - and we welcome people of all shapes, sizes and styles to our events. This includes the celebration of trans bodies, so if you are uncomfortable with this, you may not be suitable to attend. To be vetted for our events, you will need to submit some clear photographs of yourself and answer some short questions. We ask that you maintain excellent hygiene and dress to impress at our events. Management reserves the right to remove any person who does not adhere to our hygiene or dress standards, or anyone displaying disrespectful or inappropriate behaviour.
  • How can I take care of my sexual health at a play party?
    You are responsible for your own sexual health, just as you would be whilst engaging in sexual activity outside of an event. Condoms, lubricant, hand sanitizer and baby wipes will be provided at all parties, and we ask you to dispose of these responsibly in the bins provided. Sexual health is not just physical; you are encouraged to communicate clearly with others about your wants, needs and boundaries. Gaining and checking-in for consent is mandatory at all times. Do not join in play unless you are invited, and always tell a staff member if you feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
  • Why can't single cis men attend in groups?
    Kumana Nights events have a strong focus on women's exploration and empowerment, and we like to keep the ratio of female attendees much higher. We encourage women/women identifying people to take the lead and gain confidence in their pleasure and self-expression. Single cis men may still apply to be vetted and attend events. It is encouraged that they attend as a plus-one with a woman or with a mixed gender friendship or poly group. We recognise that gender extends beyond the binary of male and female, and we base our vetting process on other factors such as understanding of informed consent and respectfulness when approving individuals.
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